Not all toxic people are cruel and uncaring. Some of them love us dearly. Many of them have good intentions. Most are toxic to our being simply because their needs and way of existing in the world force us to compromise ourselves and our happiness. They aren’t inherently bad people, but they aren’t the right people for us. And as hard as it is, we have to let them go. Life is hard enough without being around people who bring you down, and as much as you care, you can’t destroy yourself for the sake of someone else. You have to make your wellbeing a priority. Whether that means breaking up with someone you care about, loving a family member from a distance, letting go of a friend, or removing yourself from a situation that feels painful — you have every right to leave and create a safer space for yourself.
exxcineribus a réagi à votre billet “i’m afraid to go to parties, is this weird too ? ”
Maybe take your own car, then make yourself stay for like 30 minutes and if you hate it, leave :)
well that was a great idea but i have to pay 20€ just to get in the ‘party’ and i don’t have my license yet (joy of being french and lazy) ! but thank you lovely :) my friends aren’t going anyway so…!